Being in a relationship comes with excitement and challenges. Sometimes, you have to experience pain and trouble to learn new things and to discover how far the both of you can go to maintain your relationship.
However, if the pain that you are experiencing is too much and if you think that your value is being depreciated, this is the right time to end your relationship.
Yes, my dear, you have to end your relationship now if things are not falling to the right places and if both of you are always causing pain with each other because if you are always fighting and proving each other’s value, this is a clear sign that you are in a very unhealthy relationship.
And if you will keep yourself stuck in that unhealthy relationship, you will be put at risk and that includes your health. So why stay in a toxic relationship if you can be with someone who will make you happier and loved?
Why settle for less if he/she is no longer in love or interested in you? Is your love enough to keep your relationship? Is there an assurance that your love for him/her will help in fixing your toxic relationship?
I know it is truly hard to let go of someone you love, however, there are some valid reasons why you should end your relationship now. And to know what are these things, here’s what you need to consider:
1. You don’t trust each other.
If both of you has trust issues, then arguments will always come your way. Your relationship will be based on doubts and once he/she shared his/her doubts to you, both of you will start playing the blaming game until one of you gives up.
If this is the routine that you have in your relationship now, it is better to cut your relationship because trust is very important in keeping a healthy relationship. And even if both of you tries to work things out, one of you will lose his/her patience and end up fighting and blaming again.
In other words, arguments and misunderstandings will become part of your relationship cycle, so better end it now before it tears your whole being.
2. You are no longer happy.
When you are in a relationship, it is very important that both of you should be happy with each other’s arms because, without happiness, you will find it hard to love your partner back because you are no longer happy with your relationship.
And even if your partner is still happy with what you have, you still need to end your relationship now because it is not healthy to keep a relationship if one of you are just being forced to do something for your partner.
So if you are doing something for your partner just because you feel pity about him/her or if you are afraid to hurt your partner, this is the perfect time to get a brave heart and end your relationship because you are just faking your feelings.
Stop pretending that you are happy about your relationship because, at the end of the day, it is you who will suffer. And it is only you who will bring all the pain.
3. You can’t see a future with your partner.
If you and your partner are together for a longer time and you have realized that he/she is not meant for you since you are not seeing any future with your partner, I think the best way that you should do is to end your relationship now.
Why end it if you still love each other and if you are both happy with what you have? The answer is very simple, and that is because you are just wasting your time and chance to meet someone who is really meant for you.
Yes, both of you can work things out. But what if you still didn’t see a future with him/her? Don’t tell me that you will try to work it out again?
Common! Stop wasting time my dear, because it is much better to invest your time and emotions with someone who will share the same thoughts with you. Someone who can also see you with their future, and someone who will help you in living your dream of having your own family.
Again, you have to remember that in a relationship, both of you should have a mutual decision and feelings. And if you are not seeing a future with your partner, or your partner is not seeing you as part of their future life, then you should end your relationship now because what you have now is pointless and the happiness that you are getting now will eventually end.
Thus, prevent this from happening and start making a move for the sake of your partner.
I know how hard it is to let go of someone you love, but you have to remember that love is not enough to make a strong and healthy relationship. Remember that life is short, so make the most of it.