Being in a long distance relationship is truly challenging. It poses many obstacles such as growing apart, trust issues, miscommunication, and sometimes loneliness. While it is true that this setup might not work for a lot of couples, there are also many untold upsides of being into LDR. I know it’s hard to believe and quite surprising, but believe me, long distance could actually be good for you, or maybe for the both of you.
The downsides will always be there but, isn’t much better if we will just focus on the good sides of LDR? Why complicate a situation that’s already complicated, right? Sometimes it’s best to look on the bright side of life, then learn how to make it brighter. One positivity that you can think about is looking for virtual date ideas for long distance relationship. Yup, there’s still beauty being into this kind of relationship.
So what are these LDR date ideas? Well, I don’t want to dwell much on the mushy side of the relationship, but this one will definitely spice up your long distance relationship; maintaining your sex life while in LDR. Sounds fun, right?
Let’s skip the razzle-dazzle part, and go directly with the virtual date ideas for you guys to maintain your sex life.
Tips to Keeps the “Sexual Sparks” in a Long Distance Relationship
- Try the Tech Foreplay
While our technology keeps on evolving, I think it’s best if you and your partner will also try to level up your sexual relationship. A little variation will break the weariness in your relationship. So get techy! Try using Teledildonic Toys to sexually stimulate each other.
You can also look for a couples’ app where you and your partner can do flirting and sexting. Sending nudes can also help you to break the ice. Just make sure to use an app where you and your partner can “exclusively” and freely exchange flirty messages. Apps like this can make your sexual relationship more special because you can both call this “your thing”. If you know what I mean. 😉
- Dirty Talk
Phone sex is not yet out of the scene! It’s fun and exciting most especially if you are in a long distance relationship. Tell erotic stories or your sexual fantasies with your partner. You can also talk about your past experiences and future sexual plans together to make the encounter a bit more exciting.
Plus, hearing your partner’s voice can be a major turn-on. It gives you more drive to learn how intimate he/she is with you. Admit or not, phone sex will allow you to feel more loved and appreciated because the effort that’s being given is truly not an easy-peasy lemon squeezy.
- Mutual Masturbation Session
To be honest, this is very beneficial and healthy in a long distance relationship. Aside from enjoying the sexual intimacy and satisfaction that it will give you, mutual masturbation can also open an opportunity for you to communicate your true feelings for your partner. Yes, it’s also stimulating to communicate your emotions to your partner like sharing how much you love him or her, and that you love him/her beyond physical attraction. But taking this aside, you can also consider watching your favorite porn scenes with your partner to add a little creativity.
- Intimately Explore Your Partner’s Body Parts
This is also a huge turn-on, and a great adventure too! You can do this maybe thru Zoom, Skype, and or Google Hangouts. Invite your partner to have a few drinks and start the process by taking off your clothes, in a very teasing way. You can gently touch your lips and run your fingers down to your chest while introducing your sexy parts. I don’t want to get into details, but I’m pretty sure you already have a hunch of it.
Long Distance Relationship and Virtual Dates
Maintaining a sex life while being in a long distance relationship is emotionally challenging. Sometimes you will find yourself exhausted and bummed out of the entire LDR thingy. And to tell you the truth, it’s natural to feel that way because there are times and moments in your life where you will suddenly feel alone; and all you wanna do is just to sit beside your partner and personally/physically share with him or her how you are emotionally connected with them. Let’s be real, it’s not always about sex. That’s why it’s important as well to communicate your feelings and emotions with your S.O. because it gives comfort and security in your relationship. So don’t just focus on sexual intimacy, okay? Always find unique ways to express how much you love your partner to keep your love more intact and your love foundation stronger.
Have you done any of these? If not, start making a plan and surprise your partner!