You are reading this one now because you have a jealous boyfriend, right? And because you are totally clueless about what to do, you want to learn how to deal with a jealous boyfriend simply because you want to keep your relationship.
Am I right or correct? Well, if we are on the same page, let us discuss things about jealousy and how you can manage the jealousy of your boyfriend.
Jealousy in a relationship is very common and natural. Sometimes we find it a little bit cute when our boyfriend/girlfriend is getting jealous of someone.
However, if your boyfriend is overly jealous and you feel like you are being controlled at all times, this is already alarming because this is an indication that you are about to enter a toxic relationship.
And too much jealousy will really destroy your relationship because he is afraid to put his trust in you. And when there is no trust, then there is no pure love. And when there is no love, then there is no happiness.
That being said, if your boyfriend is always acting like he is always being cheated on, you better cut your relationship now because no matter how much you prove to him that you are not cheating on him, he will always think that you are making up stories.
So what’s the point of your relationship if he will not trust you, right? BUT, before you consider this decision, and you think that your boyfriend still has a chance to change or to trust you, then take the following tips below to deal with his jealous kind of attitude:
1. Avoid things that will trigger his jealousy.
One of the most common reasons why men get jealous is because of the male friends of their girlfriends. So if you think that he is getting jealous with your male friends, then lessen your communication with your male friends most especially if you constantly chat or call your male friend.
Regardless of how long are your friendship, your boyfriend will still get mad and jealous of your male friend because you are giving your male friend much time rather than giving it to your boyfriend.
If you can’t do this adjustment, then why did you enter a relationship? First of all, when you are in a relationship, your priorities will really change and that includes your time with your friends.
So if you want to keep your relationship with your boyfriend, make adjustments to avoid complications.
2. Always reassure your boyfriend about your love and loyalty to him.
There is always a reason why people tend to feel too much jealousy in a relationship. And one of those reasons is because they have experienced betrayal to past relationship/s.
So if you believe that he has been into this kind of relationships before, always give him an assurance that you are not the same as his ex-girlfriend.
Tell him that you love him so much and that you will never cheat on him. Always share your love and care to your boyfriend until he feels comfortable trusting you with his whole heart.
3. Be sweet to him when he starts getting jealous.
When he is about to get jealous, the best way to handle it is to calm your boyfriend and express sweet thoughts and even actions to him. Instead of overreacting and returning the anger to him, do the opposite and tell him that there’s nothing to be jealous about.
Tell him how much you love him and that you can’t handle to break his heart. Give him sweet gestures, but not too sweet because if you are overacting it, he might think that you are really doing something fishy behind his back.
Be natural and give him what he really deserves.
The bottom line of this is that you have to understand the root cause of the jealousy of your boyfriend. You have to be patient with him because at the end of the day, his love will still prevail and he will realize that you are not the same as what he is thinking.