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Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend to Know If He’s Losing Interest in You

By Nica A / April 2, 2022
Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

You are here for a reason. You’re reading this because you are dealing with some relationship dilemmas with your boyfriend. I know that this kind of situation is not a simple undertaking. Believe me. I’ve been there a few times before. But here I am, talking to you to at least give you the facts. What you do with them is up to you. But I hope that this article will help you to at least get you started on the right path.

So what are the questions to ask your boyfriend to know if he’s losing interest in you? Is it necessary to ask these questions? Well, for me, the only way for you to find out the truth is to confront the situation. Plain and simple. You should never have to guess what is going on in your relationship. That’s why these questions are important, not just for you but also for your boyfriend.

I know it’s easier said than done. But, ladies, you have to trust me on this one. Some of you may want to shy away from the truth. But it’s better to know the answer than to keep living in limbo. If you found yourself in a situation where you consistently question yourself, if it’s really you who’s at fault, or if your boyfriend is just too busy with work or school, there’s a good chance that he’s losing interest in you.

So don’t wait any longer and confront him about it. Want to know the other questions to ask? Or would you like to know what every boyfriend needs from their girlfriend? Check out the list that I’ve created to help you deal with this kind of relationship stress.

Here Are the Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

1. Do you still find me attractive?

Most of us have insecurities. It’s only natural to wonder if we are still attractive to our partners, especially if we feel like we are putting in more effort than usual to look good. If your boyfriend can’t give you a straight answer or if he seems conflicted, it might be a sign that he is starting to lose interest in you. Sorry guys, I know you will be triggered by this, but the truth is, if you are not attracted to your girlfriend or wife anymore, then there’s a good chance the relationship is doomed.

2. Do you still want to be with me?

This is a very straightforward question that can either give you the answer that you are looking for or leave you more confused than ever. If your boyfriend says that he’s not sure or needs time to think about it, it’s probably not a good sign. On the other hand, if he quickly gives you an answer then you can move on to the next question. But hey, you should be careful tho, because he might have given you the answer that quick because he just wants to get rid of the awkwardness and not because he really meant it.

3. Do you see yourself with me in the future?

This is a great question to ask your boyfriend to know if he’s losing interest in you or not. If he can’t see himself with you in the future, then it might be time to let him go, because it’s pretty obvious that you both are wasting your time. I mean, why prolong the inevitable, right?

4. What are your thoughts on our relationship?

If you feel like something is off but you can’t quite put your finger on it, then this is the perfect question to ask your boyfriend. It will help you gauge his feelings and thoughts about the relationship. If he’s honest with you, then he should be able to tell you the real score. But if you think that he is just trying to avoid the question or he’s giving you a generic answer, then it might be time to do something about your relationship.

5. Do you still have the same feelings for me as you did when we first started dating?

Boom! There you go. This is a great question to ask your boyfriend if you feel like he’s pulling away. If he says that his feelings have changed or that he’s not sure, then it might be a sign that he no longer loves you. Okay, am I quick to judge? Alright, maybe this could be a sign that he’s falling out of love. But if he tells you that nothing has changed and that he still loves you as much as he did before, you can rest assured that things will be okay.

6. Are there any issues that you’re not telling me?

This question is definitely a tough one to ask, but it’s definitely worth it. If your boyfriend is hesitant to answer or avoid the question, just know that this question will require him a lot of time and effort to answer. But if he will be honest with you, make sure to be ready to listen and to take action. Because if he’s been harboring resentment towards you or he’s been feeling ignored, then it might be time to fix things before they get worse.

Ready or not, here are the questions to ask your boyfriend if you think he’s losing interest in you. If you’re feeling brave, then feel free to ask him these questions in person. But if you’re not ready to face the possible truth, then you can always ask him these questions over text. Just know that whatever you decide, just make sure that you are prepared for his answers. And remember, communication is key in any relationship. So if you think something is wrong, don’t hesitate to talk to your partner about it. After all, that’s what relationships are all about.